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Do you struggle with shame around sex

Wondering how you can break free of sexual or relationship patterns that just aren't working for you? 

Unsure how to communicate your needs and desires, or even what those needs and desires are?


I can help.

Hi, I'm Dr Fox Grocutt, a certified holistic sexuality educator, relationship and intimacy coach, and one of the owners of Aphrodisia Boutique.


I help people figure out their sex and relationship goals and take action to reach those goals, allowing them to understand themselves better and find greater fulfilment in their relationships.

As a neurodivergent, queer and polyamorous person, I have a lot of lived experience navigating relationships on 'hard mode'. This makes me especially good at helping those who feel that traditional relationship expectations aren't working for them and who want to do the work of building structures that serve all aspects of their identity - whether that's upending traditional gender roles, integrating your sexuality and gender identity into your sex life, transitioning away from monogamous relationship structures, or understanding and accepting your kinks.

About Me
Why Coaching?

Coaching provides a safe space to talk through your challenges and goals as well as creating a structure within which to effectively achieve those goals. Coaching can help you create meaningful and lasting change through consistent, incremental work. A good coach will keep you motivated, accountable and on-track, as well as providing outside perspectives to generate ideas and insights. 

Coaching provides clarity which can lead to immediate personal insight, meaning that many people see the value in coaching during their very first session. However, the true transformative power of coaching comes from consistently working with a coach towards your goals over time. This is why my introductory coaching package is 30 days long as I believe that this is the minimum length of time to begin to implement the insights you achieve from coaching and form better habits.


For those who have completed and benefited from the 30-day transformation plan, I offer 90 and 180 day plans that provide even more value and allow us to go deeper and really explore new ideas and new strategies to improve your romantic and sexual life.

Think coaching might help you? Schedule a free 10 minute chat to see if it's a good fit.

My Philosophy


I believe that pleasure is a vital part of life, and that improving access to pleasure makes not only our own lives better, but allows us to be more empathetic and compassionate to others.

I know that most of us were taught to feel a lot of shame around our bodies, sex and pleasure, and that this creates significant difficulties in relationships for many people. I believe that tackling this shame - understanding it, reducing it, and even making it work for us is key to improving our sexual and romantic lives. 

As a holistic educator, I understand how important it is to acknowledge the intersection of sexism, ableism, queerphobia, racism, poor sex education and mental health challenges on our sexual wellbeing. I work hard to provide a safe, judgment-free space to explore these issues and to acknowledge my own biases and limitations. I am queer-friendly, non-monogamy friendly, and kink-friendly.

My Education


I have a certification in Holistic Sexuality Education from the Institute for Sexuality Education and Enlightenment, a PhD in astrophysics and a master’s degree in animal behavior (yes, I spent too long in school!). I have worked with hundreds of people one-on-one to achieve their goals, previously in my private tutoring business and as a manager of an impactful corporate team and now as a sexuality educator and coach. I'm excited to work with you!

What I can help with
  • Reducing shame around sex

  • Breaking free of culturally-defined sexual or relationship 'scripts'

  • Pleasure troubleshooting - finding toys and techniques tailored to your needs to increase your pleasure

  • Exploring sexuality and gender identity

  • Communicating with partners about sexual desires, wants and needs

  • Understanding consent and setting boundaries

  • Alternative relationship structures such as consensual non-monogamy

  • Risk-aware consensual kink

  • Plus much more - please contact me if you have questions!

A more fulfilling love life is possible. Contact me today to see how.

Our coaching sessions are online so you don’t have to leave the privacy of your own home. Sessions last 50 minutes. Please contact us for sliding scale options.


Please note: coaching consists of talking only - there is no touch or demonstrations of any kind. Coaching is for clients who are 18+.​

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