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Community Resources

Here's a list of local and online resources we think you might find useful. If you know of any resource you think should be on this list but isn't, please drop us a line at


Disclaimer: we do not have personal experience of all services listed and cannot necessarily vouch for their veracity, efficacy or safety. Please use your best judgement when utilizing them or any other service.

Queer/BIPOC-owned Local Businesses

Find the Path Books - Port Orchard

Spread Supplies (new & used art supplies store) - Bremerton

Lona Teaches Bliss (Tantra teacher & coach) - Bremerton

Bigfoot's House of Vinyl - Bremerton

Professional Referrals

OB/GYN - LilithClinic - Seattle WA, Portland OR and Las Vegas NV. Offers sedation for all procedures

OB/GYN - Kitsap OBGYN - Silverdale & Poulsbo

Urologist - Virginia Mason - Port Orchard

Pelvic Floor Therapist - Chrysalis PT - Silverdale

Pelvic Floor Therapist - Pelvic Health Clinic - Seattle

Sex therapist - Dr Roger Libby - Poulsbo. Advertises as queer friendly.

Sex therapist - Modern Therapy Seattle. Seattle based and online. Advertises as queer and kink friendly.

Local Groups & Events

Dungeon/Kink and education space - Kitsap ACES - Bremerton

Education & events - Center for Sex Positive Culture - Seattle

Seattle Erotic Arts Festival - Seattle

KinkFest - Portland, OR

Kitsap Pride - Yearly festival in July, Bremerton. Other events/activities throughout the year.


Contraception & Abortion

Provider - Lilith Clinic - Seattle, WA, Portland OR and Las Vegas NV. Offers sedation for all procedures.

Provider - Planned Parenthood - Various locations

Provider - University of Washington - Seattle

Funding & assistance - NW Abortion Access Fund - WA, OR, ID, AL.

Information - Planned Parenthood

Pleasure & Kink Education

Pleasure education - OMG Yes

Kink education (18+) - Kink Academy

Online events, podcast & education - Sexual Health Includes Pleasure 


Betty Martin's 3-Minute Game for practicing setting boundaries and asking for what you want

Consent workshops/education for adults - Consent Academy

For parents/educators - Teach Consent

For parents - Safe Secure Kids

Domestic Violence & Abuse

National Domestic Violence Hotline - Phone: 800-799-7233 SMS: 88788

Legal Advocacy - YWCA Kitsap

YWCA Emergency Shelter - Phone: 800-500-5513 (24 hour)

Education - Love Is Respect

Survivor Resources - Helping Survivors


PFlag Seattle Chapter

Resources for LGBTQ+ youth - The Trevor Project 

Resources for LGBTQ+ youth - The It Gets Better Project

Education & advocacy - LGBT Foundation

Trans Lifeline - Phone: 877-565-8860

Advocacy & information for intersex youth - InterACT

Queer BIPOC resources - Brown Boi Project

Asexuality resources - The Asexuality Handbook

Kitsap County LGBT Facebook Group

Sex & Ability

Sex after spinal cord injury - Sexuality SCI

Women-focused sexuality & disability information - Sexuality And Disability

Book - The Ultimate Guide to Sex And Disability (buy here)

Podcast - Disability After Dark

Sexually Transmitted Infections

Testing & treatment - PlannedParenthood - Various locations

Testing & treatment - West Sound Free Clinic - Silverdale, free for under-insured

Information - Planned Parenthood

HPV vaccine 

Pre-exposure prophylaxis (PrEP) and post-exposure prophylaxis (PEP) for HIV - CDC

Talking to Kids

Age appropriate guide to talking to kids about sex - Aha Parenting

Age appropriate guide to talking to kids about sex - Planned Parenthood

Science-based parenting podcast - The Puberty Podcast


It's not the Stork! A book about girls, boys, babies, bodies, families and friends - Robie Harris & Michael Emberley

It's Perfectly Normal: Changing bodies, growing up, sex, gender, and sexual health - Robie Harris & Michael Emberley

Our Bodies and Health - Illustrated guide to puberty by Erica Moen (buy here)

We need to talk about vaginas - Dr Allison K Rodgers (buy here)

The Gender Creative Child: Pathways for nurturing and supporting children who live outside gender boxes - Diane Ehrensaft

This is a book for parents of gay kids: A question and answer guide to everyday life - Danielle Owens & Kristin Russo

Ethical Nonmonogamy



We Gotta Thing - A Swinger Podcast

Nope! We're Not Monogamous


The Critical Polyamorist 


The Ethical Slut - Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy (buy here)

Opening Up - Tristan Taormino (buy here)

Polywise - Jessica Fern (buy here)

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